Fighting For Survival: How Bad do you REALLY want to recover?

It amazes me how people in dire situations and are currently living in a state of crisis do nothing but perpetuate the crisis, wallow in negativity, and are so full of ego that they shut down and refuse any potential avenue of help that presents itself.

After having lived like this for 2 years, I can see right through all the bullshit and smoke screens and have no patience or tolerance for this.  When you're fighting for survival you need to be open to whatever avenues of help that present themselves because it could help you move forward.  If you only want help YOUR way and don't do whatever it takes for you to be okay, you will stay stuck in your rut and negativity and your problem because it's YOU who got you there in the first place.

"Our best thinking got us into trouble" is an absolute true statement.  If we are unwilling to take suggestions or be open-minded to do whatever it takes, we won't get anywhere or recover from whatever ails us.

I've recently had the unfortunate pleasure of meeting someone in dire straights and am amazed at their inability to do nothing  but exude negativity, wallow in how much of a victim they are, are completely close-minded to any and all suggestions for help other than the ones that coincide with how they think the help should come, and are so full of themselves and are bursting with self-importance and ego that they think and behave as if the entire world and everyone around him should adapt to THEM and THEIR wants and needs, not that HE should learn to adapt to LIFE if that's what it will take to survive.

As one having experienced this, I don't have the patience or tolerance for someone like this, nor do I want to be around them and let them drag me down with them.

Get the fuck away from me and out of my life.  Go somewhere else if you wish to continue to destroy yours and refuse the help that the universe presents to you.  YOUR way obviously doesn't work but you won't admit that you have NO idea how to fix your current situation, but you just want to blame it on everyone else and on circumstance.  The world won't adapt to your whims and wants, you need to adapt to IT.  It's called LIFE motherfucker.  Deal with it.